Old Blog Posts: July 2009

Monday July 13, 2009 at 9:12pm
Well it sems I have a right to know where my children stay when they are with X, so I'm going to tell her that before B and G stay with her, I need to know the address of where she lives. I found this out by dropping an email to my solicitor, and she replied within an hour - so nice to get some reassure quickly, rather than having to worry about it. Incidentally, X hasn't got any beds or furniture yet, but we have agreed that the children with be resident with me (atleast thats the legal term ....
Friday July 10, 2009 at 9:34pm
X moved out today. We agreed and disagreed over some things she wanted to take last night, and she moved out everything of hers and what we agreed during the course of today. She had the cheek to ask if I would help her get stuff into her car!  Obviously I said no.. The house is noticably different with less things in it.  She has left most things behind, but daft things like she took half the plates in the kitchen - so even though there are myself, B and G, there aren't quite enoug....
Wednesday July 8, 2009 at 10:09am
I've been to see a local solicitor that deals primarily with divorce and they are based in my town. Essentially, she (the solicitor) said to ignore the threatening tone of the letter I'd received - as it was all meant to intimidate me.  She said to get all the paperwork done in what is now a week, is just a complete joke - so she will write to them informing them of such. Some things I learnt which I wasn't aware of, and may help other people in the same circumstances are: 1. The &q....
Thursday July 2, 2009 at 8:38pm
X has surprised me by not filing for a quickie divorce - for some reason.  "ap uk" did leave a comment on my last post that, and quoting them "women do not leave without someone to go to".  In some ways that would make it easier if that was the case - although my emotions are all over the place at present so who knows how I'd feel. To recap the last few weeks, X has been doing her usual disappearing act and very rarely around.  The children have been....